Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body
wellness

Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body

My coworker said stressed. My mom said fire. One word my language has that English can't hold — and a two-thousand-year-old way of reading the body as weather.

9/25/20268 min
My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok
wellness

My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok

A blonde woman on TikTok was scraping her jaw with a small white stone. The comments were all "adding to cart." I stared at that stone for a long time — it's a gua sha board. My mom keeps one in her bedside drawer, buffalo horn. In my home it treats heatstroke. Across the ocean, it's a $35 beauty tool. Same board, two destinies.

8/31/20267 min
Chushu: Summer Doesn't End — It Stops
wellness

Chushu: Summer Doesn't End — It Stops

The cicadas went quiet, and the calendar said Chushu, the solar term where heat ''comes to rest.'' An old tai chi master by the river once told me: heaven and earth stop first; whether you follow is your own business. A soup that takes an hour to cook might be how an ordinary person catches up with the season.

8/24/20266 min
My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion
wellness

My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion

When the temperature dropped, I felt cold to my bones. My mom pulled out moxa sticks and ginger, and gave me my first ginger moxibustion. The moment the heat penetrated through the ginger slice into my body, I understood what "penetration" means.

6/26/20268 min
Hanshan Asked Shide: Tolerate Him, Yield to Him
Zen Stories

Hanshan Asked Shide: Tolerate Him, Yield to Him

Hanshan asked Shide: when someone slanders me, cheats me, insults me — how should I deal with it? Shide replied: tolerate him, yield to him, let him be, avoid him, endure him, respect him, pay him no mind.

5/10/202612 min