Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

Cook Ding's Ox: A Butcher Defined "Flow State" 2,300 Years Ago
Insights

Cook Ding's Ox: A Butcher Defined "Flow State" 2,300 Years Ago

Psychology took decades to describe flow. Zhuangzi finished it twenty-three centuries ago with one ox and one blade — a knife used for nineteen years, still fresh from the whetstone, because it looked for gaps instead of hacking bone.

10/5/20268 min
The Phone Call That Comes Every October: Time to Put Summer Away
wellness

The Phone Call That Comes Every October: Time to Put Summer Away

Cold Dew is the first of China's 24 solar terms with the word "cold" in it. The old rule for this season is one word: gather in. Pack the summer clothes, sleep earlier, shift the table from "cooling" to "moistening" — and let the unfinished things become next year's fertilizer.

10/4/20268 min
An American Girl Wore It to Prom: This Chinese Skirt Is 400 Years Old
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An American Girl Wore It to Prom: This Chinese Skirt Is 400 Years Old

An American girl wore a mamian qun to prom. The comments asked what brand it was. She said: It's not a brand. It's 400 years old. This skirt has only been back on Chinese streets for twenty years. Where did it go? How did it come home?

10/3/20267 min
I Sat Facing Away From the Door for Three Years, Before I Understood the Chinese Word "Kào Shān"
feng-shui

I Sat Facing Away From the Door for Three Years, Before I Understood the Chinese Word "Kào Shān"

For three years my desk faced away from the corridor, and I thought I was just tired. Then an elder asked: what's behind your seat? In Chinese, a sense of safety is measured by your back — a mountain to lean on. Not superstition, but observation the body already knew. A small story about moving a desk.

10/2/20267 min
Not the Wind, Not the Flag: A 1,300-Year-Old Line That Half-Cured My Internet Rage
Zen Stories

Not the Wind, Not the Flag: A 1,300-Year-Old Line That Half-Cured My Internet Rage

Last night a twenty-word comment kept me up past midnight, my finger hovering over “send.” Then I remembered Huineng's line: not the wind, not the flag — your mind is moving. Why does a sentence from 676 CE read like it was written for the age of algorithms?

10/1/20268 min
They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.
wellness

They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.

On TikTok, a woman wrote: 'Three weeks in, my shoulders finally let go.' She was doing Baduanjin — the slow routine I watched my grandfather do in the park and found unbearably boring as a kid. Nine hundred years old, it has traveled from a Song dynasty official's midnight to a New York balcony.

9/30/20268 min
He Finished Black Myth: Wukong, Then Asked: Where Does This Monkey Come From?
mythology

He Finished Black Myth: Wukong, Then Asked: Where Does This Monkey Come From?

An American streamer finished the game, actually read all hundred chapters of Journey to the West, and said: I thought it was a superhero story — turns out it's a story about how to keep yourself in check. Hanuman, Wuzhiqi, the monkey of the mind, and a headband whose real name means 'settling the heart.'

9/29/20268 min
Why There Is No Cat in the Chinese Zodiac
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Why There Is No Cat in the Chinese Zodiac

A colleague asked me why the Chinese zodiac has no cat. Vietnam has one — his girlfriend is born in the Year of the Cat. The folk tale blames a betrayed rat. The real reason: when the list closed two thousand years ago, house cats hadn't arrived in China yet.

9/28/20266 min
Ten Thousand Hidden Clay Stupas: Does Something Only Count When No One Sees It?
Buddhist Notes

Ten Thousand Hidden Clay Stupas: Does Something Only Count When No One Sees It?

A friend brought me a fingernail-sized clay stupa from Lhasa, called a tsa-tsa. The people who make them know their fate: dark cracks in great stupas, caves no one visits — zero audience. Meanwhile we count likes and refresh view counts, sprinting in exactly the opposite direction. An old man who made tsa-tsa his whole life said: when I make them, my mind is clean.

9/27/20267 min
One Word Off, Five Hundred Fox Lives: Baizhang's Wild Fox Koan
Zen Stories

One Word Off, Five Hundred Fox Lives: Baizhang's Wild Fox Koan

An old man attended Baizhang's lectures for centuries. He said he was once an abbot who answered a student's question with one wrong word — and fell into a fox's body for five hundred lives. Baizhang changed a single word, and the fox was free. What's the difference? I sat with it for two days: one wants exemption, the other is simply awake.

9/26/20267 min
Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body
wellness

Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body

My coworker said stressed. My mom said fire. One word my language has that English can't hold — and a two-thousand-year-old way of reading the body as weather.

9/25/20268 min
Guanyin's Thirty-Three Forms: The Face That Listens
mythology

Guanyin's Thirty-Three Forms: The Face That Listens

A Westerner stood before a white porcelain Guanyin and said: "Her face — it's not sad, it's not happy. It's listening." Why do church statues look down while Guanyin looks straight at you? I opened my old copy of the Universal Gate chapter. Compassion is not one face; it is a thousand. (And yes — Guanyin used to have a mustache.)

9/23/20268 min
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