Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

The Phone Call That Comes Every October: Time to Put Summer Away
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The Phone Call That Comes Every October: Time to Put Summer Away

Cold Dew is the first of China's 24 solar terms with the word "cold" in it. The old rule for this season is one word: gather in. Pack the summer clothes, sleep earlier, shift the table from "cooling" to "moistening" — and let the unfinished things become next year's fertilizer.

10/4/20268 min
They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.
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They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.

On TikTok, a woman wrote: 'Three weeks in, my shoulders finally let go.' She was doing Baduanjin — the slow routine I watched my grandfather do in the park and found unbearably boring as a kid. Nine hundred years old, it has traveled from a Song dynasty official's midnight to a New York balcony.

9/30/20268 min
Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body
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Too Much Heat: The Word That Won't Translate, and the Weather Inside Your Body

My coworker said stressed. My mom said fire. One word my language has that English can't hold — and a two-thousand-year-old way of reading the body as weather.

9/25/20268 min
My Coworker Takes Melatonin Gummies. My Mother Sent Me a Foot-Soak Basin.
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My Coworker Takes Melatonin Gummies. My Mother Sent Me a Foot-Soak Basin.

A bottle of melatonin gummies from a business trip, a wooden foot-soak basin from my mother — two civilizations answering the same sleepless night. Melatonin shouts "it's dark!" on behalf of the body. Foot soaking invites a mind that has been sprinting all day to finally stop. Insomnia is often not a sleep problem; it's the day's unpaid bill, collected at night. Settle the heart first, then the eyes.

9/19/20269 min
“Drink More Hot Water”: The Laziest Words in Chinese, and the Medicine Behind Them
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“Drink More Hot Water”: The Laziest Words in Chinese, and the Medicine Behind Them

My American colleague asked why I drink hot water. My mom isn't a doctor — but behind her stands something a few thousand years old. Chinese medicine calls the stomach a stove, and ice water a block of ice dropped into the pot.

9/16/20268 min
That Smell Again: TikTok's New "Moxa" Craze, My Mom Has Been Doing It for Thirty Years
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That Smell Again: TikTok's New "Moxa" Craze, My Mom Has Been Doing It for Thirty Years

A blonde girl on TikTok lit her first moxa stick, and the comments ran into the tens of thousands. I stared at the screen — not surprised that foreigners found moxibustion, but because the smell seemed to drift right out of the screen. My mom has been doing it for thirty years. "A seven-year illness needs mugwort aged three years."

9/11/20268 min
White Dew: My Mom Called to Say, No More Cold Drinks
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White Dew: My Mom Called to Say, No More Cold Drinks

A cool gust on a late-summer night told me summer was truly over. White Dew — the most beautifully named of China's twenty-four solar terms. TCM says autumn is for the lungs. I ignored that for years. This year I finally cooked the soup.

9/1/20267 min
My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok
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My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok

A blonde woman on TikTok was scraping her jaw with a small white stone. The comments were all "adding to cart." I stared at that stone for a long time — it's a gua sha board. My mom keeps one in her bedside drawer, buffalo horn. In my home it treats heatstroke. Across the ocean, it's a $35 beauty tool. Same board, two destinies.

8/31/20267 min
Chushu: Summer Doesn't End — It Stops
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Chushu: Summer Doesn't End — It Stops

The cicadas went quiet, and the calendar said Chushu, the solar term where heat ''comes to rest.'' An old tai chi master by the river once told me: heaven and earth stop first; whether you follow is your own business. A soup that takes an hour to cook might be how an ordinary person catches up with the season.

8/24/20266 min
The Daoist Told Me He Hadn't Eaten Lunch in Seven Years
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The Daoist Told Me He Hadn't Eaten Lunch in Seven Years

On a lost path behind Mount Qingcheng, I met a Daoist who had not eaten lunch in seven years. Bigu is not dieting, nor fasting — it is another kind of relationship between a person and food.

7/19/20269 min
A Friend Asked Why I Look Better Lately. I Said: I've Been Standing Still.
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A Friend Asked Why I Look Better Lately. I Said: I've Been Standing Still.

An 80-year-old TCM doctor taught me zhan zhuang — Chinese standing meditation. I didn't believe it at first. How can standing still heal anything? After 100 days, my insomnia is gone, my hands are warm, my temper softened. This is my honest record of those hundred days.

7/18/202611 min
Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say
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Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say

A blonde girl on TikTok doing Ba Duan Jin with imperfect form. After three years of practice, I realize — it doesn't matter if your form is perfect. What matters is whether you're willing to give your body eight minutes a day.

7/17/202610 min
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