Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

A Friend Asked Why I Look Better Lately. I Said: I've Been Standing Still.
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A Friend Asked Why I Look Better Lately. I Said: I've Been Standing Still.

An 80-year-old TCM doctor taught me zhan zhuang — Chinese standing meditation. I didn't believe it at first. How can standing still heal anything? After 100 days, my insomnia is gone, my hands are warm, my temper softened. This is my honest record of those hundred days.

7/18/202611 min
Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say
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Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say

A blonde girl on TikTok doing Ba Duan Jin with imperfect form. After three years of practice, I realize — it doesn't matter if your form is perfect. What matters is whether you're willing to give your body eight minutes a day.

7/17/202610 min
Giving My Back to the Sun
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Giving My Back to the Sun

A TikTok video of a girl sunning her back went viral. This is exactly what my mom forced me to do every summer — and I finally understand why.

7/16/20269 min
The Breathing Technique a Daoist Monk Taught Me Cured My Three Years of Insomnia
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The Breathing Technique a Daoist Monk Taught Me Cured My Three Years of Insomnia

Three years of insomnia. Melatonin, white noise, counting sheep — nothing worked. Then I met a Daoist monk on Mount Qingcheng who taught me three breathing techniques. A month later, I was asleep in fifteen minutes.

7/15/20269 min
I Stuck Tiny Seeds on My Ears to Cure Anxiety. I Didn't Believe It Either.
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I Stuck Tiny Seeds on My Ears to Cure Anxiety. I Didn't Believe It Either.

A few days ago, I came across a video. A foreign girl looked into the camera and said, "Ear seeds changed my life." She had...

7/12/20267 min
Stick Out Your Tongue: A Chinese Doctor Can Tell What's Wrong
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Stick Out Your Tongue: A Chinese Doctor Can Tell What's Wrong

Last week I visited a Chinese medicine doctor. He asked no questions—just looked at my tongue for three seconds and knew everything. What can a tongue reveal?

7/11/20268 min
I Couldn't Sleep From Anxiety. My Mom Said: Go Make a Bowl of Millet Porridge.
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I Couldn't Sleep From Anxiety. My Mom Said: Go Make a Bowl of Millet Porridge.

At eleven at night, my brain was full of work. My mom said: go make millet porridge. When your stomach is warm, you settle down. Those twenty minutes at the stove worked better than any meditation app.

7/9/20267 min
Waking Up at 3 AM? In Chinese Medicine, That's Your Liver Working Overtime
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Waking Up at 3 AM? In Chinese Medicine, That's Your Liver Working Overtime

3 AM. Again. Not from an alarm, not from a nightmare. Just eyes flying open. I discovered that in Chinese medicine, every two-hour block has a meridian "on duty" — and waking at 3 AM is your Liver meridian sending an SOS.

7/5/20267 min
Seven Purple Circles on My Back: My First Cupping Therapy
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Seven Purple Circles on My Back: My First Cupping Therapy

After three weeks of overtime, my back started protesting. My mom pulled out a bamboo cup inherited from my grandmother and gave me my first cupping session. Seven circular marks — purple, black, red, pink — like moons on my back, like a map of my body.

7/4/20269 min
My Mom Told Me to Soak My Feet Every Night. It Took Three Years to Understand Why.
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My Mom Told Me to Soak My Feet Every Night. It Took Three Years to Understand Why.

From being held down as a kid to soak my feet, to finally boiling water myself — an ordinary person's journey to understanding Chinese foot bath therapy. Ginger, peppercorns, mugwort, safflower — not superstition, but real plant compounds at work.

7/1/20267 min
Why Chinese Moms Always Tell You Not to Drink Cold Water
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Why Chinese Moms Always Tell You Not to Drink Cold Water

Thirty-seven degrees. I grabbed an iced cola. My mom called and said don't. I didn't believe her until a Chinese medicine doctor said two words: "stomach cold." After 30 days of warm water, I found out my mom was right all along.

6/28/20269 min
My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion
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My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion

When the temperature dropped, I felt cold to my bones. My mom pulled out moxa sticks and ginger, and gave me my first ginger moxibustion. The moment the heat penetrated through the ginger slice into my body, I understood what "penetration" means.

6/26/20268 min
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