Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.
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They Call It 'Chinese Yoga.' My Grandfather Called It Baduanjin.

On TikTok, a woman wrote: 'Three weeks in, my shoulders finally let go.' She was doing Baduanjin — the slow routine I watched my grandfather do in the park and found unbearably boring as a kid. Nine hundred years old, it has traveled from a Song dynasty official's midnight to a New York balcony.

9/30/20268 min
That Smell Again: TikTok's New "Moxa" Craze, My Mom Has Been Doing It for Thirty Years
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That Smell Again: TikTok's New "Moxa" Craze, My Mom Has Been Doing It for Thirty Years

A blonde girl on TikTok lit her first moxa stick, and the comments ran into the tens of thousands. I stared at the screen — not surprised that foreigners found moxibustion, but because the smell seemed to drift right out of the screen. My mom has been doing it for thirty years. "A seven-year illness needs mugwort aged three years."

9/11/20268 min
She Keeps a Rose Quartz by Her Bed, and Asked Me Where Her Peach Blossom Corner Is
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She Keeps a Rose Quartz by Her Bed, and Asked Me Where Her Peach Blossom Corner Is

A friend bought a rose quartz on TikTok to attract love. I told her about the peach blossoms of three thousand years ago, the four directions in the old fortune-teller's rhyme, and one more thing: a person's love corner is so often the messiest corner of their home.

9/8/20267 min
Westerners Burn Sage on TikTok. I Lit a Stick of Incense.
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Westerners Burn Sage on TikTok. I Lit a Stick of Incense.

A bundle of white sage sells for twelve dollars online, promising to cleanse negative energy. Watching that smoke, I thought of the bronze burner on my grandfather's desk. Chinese people have burned incense for thousands of years — but never to chase anything away. The Song Dynasty counted it among its four leisurely arts, agarwood is a tree's scar, and an incense seal makes time visible. They cleanse; we settle. That difference is what this piece is about.

9/6/20268 min
My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok
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My Mom's Gua Sha Board Went Viral on TikTok

A blonde woman on TikTok was scraping her jaw with a small white stone. The comments were all "adding to cart." I stared at that stone for a long time — it's a gua sha board. My mom keeps one in her bedside drawer, buffalo horn. In my home it treats heatstroke. Across the ocean, it's a $35 beauty tool. Same board, two destinies.

8/31/20267 min
The Beast That Only Takes In: I Found a Pixiu in My Drawer
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The Beast That Only Takes In: I Found a Pixiu in My Drawer

Cleaning out a drawer, I found a stone Pixiu I bought years ago for thirty yuan. The vendor said it has a mouth but no other end — nothing comes out. Now foreigners on TikTok call it the money beast. I finally understood: it isn't for asking wealth. It's for watching over what you have.

8/30/20267 min
Feng Shui on My Desk: My Danish Colleague Learned It Before I Did
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Feng Shui on My Desk: My Danish Colleague Learned It Before I Did

A new Danish colleague placed a rose quartz and a pothos on her desk — desk feng shui, she learned it from TikTok. I almost laughed. My mom told me all this when I set up my desk in elementary school. Sit solid, face open; keep the Bright Hall clear; left high, right low. Unpack these old rules, and almost every one maps onto modern environmental psychology.

8/26/202610 min
Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say
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Ba Duan Jin Went Viral Worldwide. I've Been Doing It for Three Years, and I Have Some Honest Things to Say

A blonde girl on TikTok doing Ba Duan Jin with imperfect form. After three years of practice, I realize — it doesn't matter if your form is perfect. What matters is whether you're willing to give your body eight minutes a day.

7/17/202610 min
Giving My Back to the Sun
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Giving My Back to the Sun

A TikTok video of a girl sunning her back went viral. This is exactly what my mom forced me to do every summer — and I finally understand why.

7/16/20269 min
I Saw Foreigners Learning Face Reading on TikTok, So I Looked in the Mirror
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I Saw Foreigners Learning Face Reading on TikTok, So I Looked in the Mirror

What is face reading actually looking at? An ordinary person stared at the mirror for a long time. Maybe every line on your face is a mark of how you've lived.

7/13/20267 min
Why the Whole World Is Practicing Ba Duan Jin: A Lazy Person's Honest 30-Day Account
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Why the Whole World Is Practicing Ba Duan Jin: A Lazy Person's Honest 30-Day Account

I never thought I'd become a morning exercise person. Then I saw the whole world doing Ba Duan Jin on TikTok. A Chinese practitioner rediscovering their own culture through foreigners. After 30 days, my shoulders loosened, my neck stopped cracking, even meditation felt more grounded.

6/13/20268 min