Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings - wellness

Why Chinese Moms Always Tell You Not to Drink Cold Water
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Why Chinese Moms Always Tell You Not to Drink Cold Water

Thirty-seven degrees. I grabbed an iced cola. My mom called and said don't. I didn't believe her until a Chinese medicine doctor said two words: "stomach cold." After 30 days of warm water, I found out my mom was right all along.

6/28/20269 min
My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion
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My Mom Put a Slice of Ginger on My Belly Button and Lit It on Fire: My First Moxibustion

When the temperature dropped, I felt cold to my bones. My mom pulled out moxa sticks and ginger, and gave me my first ginger moxibustion. The moment the heat penetrated through the ginger slice into my body, I understood what "penetration" means.

6/26/20268 min
Three Mouth Ulcers and My Mother Saying: You've Got Fire
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Three Mouth Ulcers and My Mother Saying: You've Got Fire

Mouth sores, acne, sore throat, swollen gums — why does Chinese medicine call all of these the same thing? After retracing a rough week, I started understanding what my body was saying.

6/25/20267 min
Summer Solstice: My Mom Said Your Fire Is Trapped Inside
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Summer Solstice: My Mom Said Your Fire Is Trapped Inside

Blisters in my mouth, can't sleep at night, irritable all day. My mom said it's "heart fire." An ordinary person tries living by the seasons for a few days and discovers the ancient wisdom isn't mysticism at all.

6/21/20269 min
Your Body Isn't Broken, It's Clogged: Understanding Dampness in Chinese Medicine
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Your Body Isn't Broken, It's Clogged: Understanding Dampness in Chinese Medicine

A friend visited from the States and felt inexplicably heavy. I brewed adzuki bean tea and talked about dampness in Chinese medicine - not mysticism, just the body speaking.

6/16/202612 min
My Mom Pulled a Stone Out of Her Suitcase and Said: Your Face Is Swollen
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My Mom Pulled a Stone Out of Her Suitcase and Said: Your Face Is Swollen

I always thought gua sha was something old ladies did. Until my mom pulled out a jade scraper and told me my face was swollen. After a month, I realized the beauty benefits were secondary — those five quiet minutes every morning were everything.

6/14/20268 min
Why the Whole World Is Practicing Ba Duan Jin: A Lazy Person's Honest 30-Day Account
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Why the Whole World Is Practicing Ba Duan Jin: A Lazy Person's Honest 30-Day Account

I never thought I'd become a morning exercise person. Then I saw the whole world doing Ba Duan Jin on TikTok. A Chinese practitioner rediscovering their own culture through foreigners. After 30 days, my shoulders loosened, my neck stopped cracking, even meditation felt more grounded.

6/13/20268 min