Writings

What Ru Shi Writes

Whatever comes to mind. Sometimes a story I read, sometimes something that came to me while holding my mala beads.

All Writings

Cook Ding's Ox: A Butcher Defined "Flow State" 2,300 Years Ago
Insights

Cook Ding's Ox: A Butcher Defined "Flow State" 2,300 Years Ago

Psychology took decades to describe flow. Zhuangzi finished it twenty-three centuries ago with one ox and one blade — a knife used for nineteen years, still fresh from the whetstone, because it looked for gaps instead of hacking bone.

10/5/20268 min
Foreigners Pay $200 to Learn Tea Ceremony. The First Lesson Is Waiting for the Water
Tea Time

Foreigners Pay $200 to Learn Tea Ceremony. The First Lesson Is Waiting for the Water

A tea workshop in New York, two hundred dollars for two hours, and the first lesson is watching a kettle boil — ten minutes, no phones. It reminded me of grandpa's enamel mug, and the sound Su Dongpo listened for a thousand years ago. What $200 buys has been on the stove all along.

9/12/20267 min
Bazi and MBTI: The Night I Laid Two Maps Side by Side
zodiac

Bazi and MBTI: The Night I Laid Two Maps Side by Side

At a team icebreaker, everyone announced their MBTI — and I couldn't remember mine. That night I dug out the bazi chart my mother had made the year I was born, laid the two maps side by side, and noticed three things.

9/3/20267 min
Why I Pour Out the First Cup of Tea: A Friend Thought I Was Wasting Money
Tea Time

Why I Pour Out the First Cup of Tea: A Friend Thought I Was Wasting Money

My friend watched me pour tea and dump the first steep. He looked horrified. Then an old man in a signless tea house in Chaozhou said one sentence that changed everything.

6/29/20267 min
Three Coins, One Question: I Tried I Ching Divination at Home
Insights

Three Coins, One Question: I Tried I Ching Divination at Home

Insomnia at 3 AM. I opened the I Ching my teacher recommended. Three coins, six throws, one hexagram. Not superstition or fortune-telling — but a way to see the answer you already know but won't admit.

6/19/20267 min
Your Body Isn't Broken, It's Clogged: Understanding Dampness in Chinese Medicine
wellness

Your Body Isn't Broken, It's Clogged: Understanding Dampness in Chinese Medicine

A friend visited from the States and felt inexplicably heavy. I brewed adzuki bean tea and talked about dampness in Chinese medicine - not mysticism, just the body speaking.

6/16/202612 min
My Friend Couldn't Sleep for Three Months After Moving: On the Invisible Things in Your Bedroom
feng-shui

My Friend Couldn't Sleep for Three Months After Moving: On the Invisible Things in Your Bedroom

Where your bed faces, which way the mirror points, what's above your head — these little things you thought didn't matter might be quietly stealing your sleep. It's not superstition. It's your body being honest.

6/11/20266 min
Ananda's Head Hadn't Touched the Pillow Yet
Buddhist Notes

Ananda's Head Hadn't Touched the Pillow Yet

Ananda served as the Buddha's closest attendant for twenty-five years, hearing every teaching, yet never attaining enlightenment. After the Buddha's passing, he was excluded from the first Buddhist council. That night, exhausted from relentless practice, as his head fell toward the pillow — in the instant before it touched — he suddenly awakened.

6/8/20267 min
Whose Chariot Is This — Reading the Milinda Panha
Buddhist Notes

Whose Chariot Is This — Reading the Milinda Panha

Over two thousand years ago, a monk and a king sat down to discuss a question that still has not gone out of style: Who are you? After reading this conversation, I picked up my cold tea and suddenly the cup felt strange in my hand.

5/28/20268 min
What the Thief Left Behind: Ryōkan and the Moonlight at His Window
Zen Stories

What the Thief Left Behind: Ryōkan and the Moonlight at His Window

A man so poor he had nothing but moonlight, and a thief who found nothing worth stealing. The night Zen monk Ryōkan lost his last robe and saw the richest view in the world through his window.

5/22/20267 min
Sudhana's 53 Teachers: A Boy Who Learned from Everyone
Buddhist Notes

Sudhana's 53 Teachers: A Boy Who Learned from Everyone

In the Avatamsaka Sutra, a young man walks a very long road to meet fifty-three teachers. Not a list of great masters - but a boatman, a doctor, a merchant, a king. Each one taught him a new way of seeing the world.

5/12/20268 min
A Bowl of Clear Water: Sen no Rikyu's Tea Was Never for Tea Experts
Tea Time

A Bowl of Clear Water: Sen no Rikyu's Tea Was Never for Tea Experts

The great tea master Sen no Rikyu said tea is nothing more than boiling water, whisking tea, and drinking it. Yet he spent a whole winter preparing for just that. What hides in a bowl of clear water?

4/25/202610 min
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